The discovery of infidelity is devastating, particularly when the affair involves a mutual friend. This dual betrayal can magnify emotional turmoil, warranting both personal and legal reflection. Family law attorney Bill Farias stresses the importance of processing these emotions, especially for parents, as poor decisions may impact custody considerations. Individuals are advised to communicate with their spouse about intentions and gather pertinent information, especially regarding financial implications, since infidelity can affect divorce proceedings. Addressing the situation directly with the friend may also provide clarity and resolution.
Discovering your spouse is cheating is jarring. With your friend? Crushing. Not only has your partner violated your trust, but the person you call in a pinch, confide in, and socialize with has, too.
Farias cautions that this is even more pressing if you are a parent of minor children. Exposing children to the circumstances around affairs with mutual friends can be evidence of poor judgment by either parent.
Ask your spouse about their intentions. Knowing what your spouse is thinking is helpful, whether they are considering divorce, moving out, or regaining your trust.
Farias suggests gathering as much information as possible, including about the transactions related to the cheating, as infidelity typically becomes relevant in divorce if there's a financial impact.
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