Dear Mary: I feel very hurt and let down by my good friend who disappeared after my brother died

The writer expresses deep disappointment and devastation over a close friend's behavior following the death of their brother, who passed away from motor neurone disease. Despite a strong friendship that began in school and the friend's attendance at the funeral, the writer notes a rapid decline in communication, leading to the friend's total disappearance from their life within eight months. This experience highlights the emotional pain and isolation felt during a difficult period of grief, emphasizing the importance of support from loved ones.

I expected my close friend to support me after my brother's death, but she quickly became less communicative and disappeared from my life.

It was devastating to lose my brother to motor neurone disease, and I thought my long-time friend would be there for me during this painful time.

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