The letter details a long-term friendship impacted by Sheila's descent into alcoholism following her husband's death. Despite efforts by friends and family, Sheila’s behavior worsened, leading to accidents and hospitalization. The writer feels sad and angry about the situation, as Sheila continues to contact her without addressing her alcoholism. Dear Abby advises the writer to confront Sheila about her addiction, emphasizing that she can no longer support her until Sheila acknowledges her problem and begins recovery. The letter explores the emotional turmoil of watching a friend struggle with addiction.
Tell Sheila that although you care about her, you are no longer willing to stand by and watch her try to kill herself, because that is what she has been doing.
Sometimes, an addict must hit rock bottom before they realize what their habit has cost them.
You would love to continue talking with her, but only once she has confronted her serious alcohol problem AND has started on the road to recovery.
I have tried to be caring and supportive when most of her other friends have written her off, but I'm ready to give up.
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