The letter to Dear Abby describes a woman whose boyfriend, plagued by insecurities, resorts to controlling behaviors after she informed him of a friend's inappropriate advance. Despite her honesty and efforts to avoid conflict, he accuses her of infidelity and installs surveillance devices. Abby warns the woman about the abusive nature of her boyfriend's actions and advises her to prioritize her safety, suggesting she consider ending the relationship to reclaim her self-esteem. The situation exemplifies unhealthy relationship dynamics centered on trust issues and control.
His controlling behavior has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his own insecurities. What he is doing to you is sick and abusive.
You will never be able to assuage this man's suspicions. For your safety, I urge you to end this romance while you still have enough self-esteem to manage it.
I chose to do all that so he would stop accusing me, but he always finds something wrong.
Part of me worries that even if I take this test, he will find something else and it's never gonna stop.
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