Asking for a friend: My partner lost his job a year ago and it's put a lot of pressure on us - now he's hinting he wants to move in. I am not sure he's the man for me anymore
Briefly

Unemployment can put considerable pressure on relationships. One partner's job loss may lead to financial strain and a pause in future planning. Couples often differ in their financial attitudes, causing complications in managing shared expenses. A 50/50 financial arrangement may not work well if there is a significant income disparity. Such arrangements can create tension and resentment over time, impacting overall relationship satisfaction. Decisions about the future become challenging when one partner lacks stability, potentially leading to doubts about compatibility and long-term plans.
Financial issues are one of the top complaints that couples have. Our attitudes to money can vary widely, and often a 50/50 split is attempted but fails in real life.
If a couple has different incomes, a 50/50 split might not work as it can put pressure on both to spend money that's easier for one person than the other, and resentment begins to breed.
Read at Independent
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