A mother expresses hurt over her best friend's uncertainty about attending her son's wedding, the only wedding of her child. Despite having a strong history, the friend’s excuses feel inadequate, especially given the significance of the event. The advice given emphasizes the importance of communication, suggesting the mother voice her feelings using 'I statements' to avoid resentment. It's possible that the friend may not fully understand the mother’s perspective or the event's importance, and discussing it can clarify these feelings while allowing for an amicable resolution.
Your feelings are completely reasonable. This is a special occasion, and a rare one at that, and it's reasonable that you want someone who means a lot to be present.
The point is to prevent your feelings from staying bottled up and turning into resentment. By talking to her, you can express your hurt rather than letting it fester.
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