"Dating and relationship conversations can be awkward and embarrassing. Those feelings arise because of an inherent conflict. On one hand, we are motivated to ask for what we want from a romantic partner. On the other hand, we don't want to embarrass ourselves or make things awkward with them in the process."
"Kunkel and associates identified six main concerns that individuals worry about before initiating a relationship: Why do I want to start dating this person right now? Are they seeing someone else or are they unable to date me for another reason? Do I have the right to ask them out? Why do I need to be the one to ask them out? Do they seem willing? Do I risk our current friendship?"
Dating conversations create internal conflict between wanting to express romantic interest and fearing embarrassment or social awkwardness. Research by Kunkel, Wilson, Olufowote, and Robson identified six main concerns that prevent people from asking someone out: questioning their own motivations, uncertainty about the other person's relationship status, doubts about having the right to ask, wondering why they must initiate, assessing willingness, and risking existing friendships. Understanding these face threats and employing face-saving strategies through indirect approaches can help people overcome hesitation and successfully initiate romantic relationships with reduced anxiety and social risk.
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