"More than any other question, this one makes laugh because polyamory is actually the opposite of cheating. The only thing we have in common with cheaters is the capacity to love more than one person at a time, but by definition, polyamory is about informed consent with everyone involved. The fundamental premise of our lifestyle is honesty, communication and decidedly not sneaking around and lying to people you love!" ― KamalaDevi McClure
"I've heard every version of this and despite my big heart, it always makes me want to punch someone in the face. The condescension and self-righteousness are almost more than I can break down, but consider this: Polyamory is not a compromise we make because we have lower standards; it's a preference - some even consider it an orientation. Doing it right cultivates an intense depth of intimacy. Just like choosing to be exclusive, we're just growing closer through different experiences. You may prefer cross-country skiing, but that doesn't mean everyone who snowboards is settling." ― Zaeli Kane
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