"Being habitually dismissed subtly can drain us just as much as outright cruelty. The exhaustion builds whether the disrespect is loud or quiet."
"Politeness is not morally neutral in social dynamics; it is a valuable source of information. It tells people what they can do with you."
"When people are given multiple reasons for a position, they do not mentally add them up. Instead, they average their strength."
"A single clear, strong statement is often perceived as more legitimate than a bundle of mixed-quality justifications."
Small slights can be as exhausting as overt cruelty, leading to feelings of being overlooked and disrespected. Politeness plays a crucial role in social dynamics, influencing how others perceive and treat individuals. Over-explaining decisions can weaken boundaries and dilute authority, as multiple justifications are averaged in strength. A single, clear statement is often more effective than a bundle of mixed reasons, which can undermine the legitimacy of the original decision.
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