Being a stepparent can be challenging, requiring sensitivity to the child's needs and feelings. Therapist Abby emphasizes that the foundational rule of stepparenting is that the child dictates the relationship’s pace. This allows the stepparent to nurture a bond that develops naturally, rather than forcing a connection. Navigating this relationship is essential, as it fosters a healthy dynamic where the child feels secure and respected during the transition into a blended family.
The kid decides your relationship and the pace of your relationship. That is the only way to have a healthy relationship.
You cannot force it. You cannot make them treat you as a mom if they don't feel that you're a mom.
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