The article discusses the perception gap between parents and their preteen children regarding arguments and guidance. Many children believe their parents argue to assert dominance or punish them, misunderstanding the parentsâ intentions to prepare them for adulthood. Hormonal changes during puberty heighten this sensitivity, leading to misinterpretations of boundary setting as criticism. The author highlights the importance of calm communication and explains that many adolescents do not grasp the reasons behind parental discipline, suggesting a need for parents to articulate their intentions clearly to foster understanding and cooperation.
Listening to these answers reminded me that many children and adolescents assume that most people think like they do.
It should be noted that often preteens interpret the setting of boundaries or guidance as criticism or arguments, even when they are given calm instructions.
When I have suggested that the main reason parents argue with their children is that they want to help them become well-adjusted and successful adults.
I must admit that I was surprised to find out that some teenagers do not understand the reason for their parents' discipline and guidance.
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