In Slate's parenting advice column, a letter writer grapples with the decision to tell his dying father-in-law that his wife is pregnant, despite it being untrue. The writer's wife believes this deceit could provide comfort and joy during his final days, giving them something positive to focus on rather than illness. However, the letter writer is torn, questioning whether this lie would genuinely bring happiness or just intensify heartbreak when the truth inevitably surfaces. Additionally, the couple faces uncertainty about their plans for children, creating further complications in their decision-making.
The idea of fabricating my wife’s pregnancy seems like an opportunity to bring joy to my father-in-law in his final days, but I’m conflicted.
My wife proposes that we tell him she's pregnant very early in her supposed term, so the truth remains hidden while providing him with hope.
While this white lie might offer comfort, I worry it could lead to painful realizations for my father-in-law, who desires to become a grandfather.
The reality is we are uncertain about starting a family and the ethical dilemma of telling him a lie adds another layer of stress.
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