"Keeping up with the Joneses can send a bad message to your daughter, especially as she grows older, that she should care more about what other people think than what she really wants. A 5 year old may or may not notice the difference between a $5,000 birthday part"
A parenting advice response addresses a conflict over a lavish birthday plan for a 5-year-old. The response notes that social hierarchies and appearances can matter in some parenting circles and can influence how children are perceived and treated. It suggests the wife may be motivated by concern that her child not be seen as less than peers. The response also validates the father’s view that overspending to impress others is unreasonable, especially in a difficult economy. It warns that trying to keep up with others can teach a child to prioritize others’ opinions over personal wants. It implies a compromise that keeps the birthday special without breaking the bank.
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