The author shares their approach to helping their kids manage social invitations, allowing them to decline without pressure. Drawing from their own uncomfortable experiences, especially from middle school, they emphasize the importance of enabling kids to say no, using the author as an excuse when necessary. While acknowledging the importance of teaching kids to advocate for themselves, the author believes in providing support during adolescence as they learn how to handle social dynamics and find comfort in their choices.
When it comes to social invitations, I give my kids permission to say no, along with an easy excuse: ‘Just blame me!’ This helps them navigate social pressures.
Navigating social invites can be daunting for teenagers, and while I want them to learn to decline gracefully, I also want them to feel supported in that process.
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