In Slate's Care and Feeding column, a parent expresses concern over her 13-year-old son, Daniel, who has been exhibiting defiant behavior, including smoking and using misogynistic language. Efforts to connect him with a therapist have been met with resistance, as Daniel fears confidentiality breaches. The response recommends pursuing the therapist's suggestion to find a better fit for Daniel and emphasizes the importance of addressing his misogyny and monitoring the influences in his life. Resources highlighting the raising of anti-sexist boys are suggested for guidance.
Take Daniel's therapist up on his recommendation; this person may be a better fit for your son, and you don't want to give up on the therapy so soon.
It's not uncommon to try a few providers before finding someone who works. You want to diligently address his misogyny before it goes any further.
Read up on raising anti-sexist boys in a culture of toxic masculinity. Pay attention to the content he's consuming and monitor his online behavior.
Try 'Raising Feminist Boys' and 'How to Raise a Feminist Son' to help navigate Daniel's oppositional behavior and beliefs.
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