In the Slate parenting column, a parent expresses concern about their 9-year-old son acting overly parental towards his younger sister. While his intentions are good, the daughter finds his behavior annoying. The advice suggests acknowledging the son's helpful attitude but clarifying appropriate boundaries. He can support his sister's learning by engaging positively rather than trying to discipline her. The column emphasizes the importance of the sibling relationship, reminding the child of his unique role as a brother rather than a parent.
You can start by telling your son that you love and appreciate him looking out for his sister, and you know that he's trying to help.
It's a very special and important role, being a sibling. Remind him that your daughter already has two parents, but only he can be her big brother.
Collection
[
|
...
]