My father-in-law pressured my husband and me to have kids in our 20s. I don't regret it, even though I was unsure.
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The author reflects on her decision to have children after her father-in-law's birthday request for grandkids. Initially hesitant, she found joy in motherhood after witnessing her husband’s connection with a babysat child. Despite the struggles that came with pregnancy, including increased arguments with her husband, they embraced the new chapter together. The announcement of their pregnancy brought immense joy to their families. Through motherhood, she formed strong bonds with other mothers, indicating that parenting, while challenging, introduced fulfillment and support that enriched her life.
When we took my in-laws and parents out to eat at our favorite Mexican restaurant, I handed them each a gift - my favorite picture book, Madeline. Inside, I'd scribbled the words, "Read to me November 18th," and then informed them we were pregnant and that was my due date.
Motherhood turned out to be the sweetest gift for other reasons, too. At a 'Mommy and Me' class, I met a group of extraordinary women. We bonded over sleepless nights, breastfeeding woes, and baby milestones.
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