My Daughter-in-Law Loves to Cut People Out of Her Life. I Think My Plan is About to Set Her Off.
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A grandmother wishes to enjoy her retirement through travel and friendships, but faces backlash from her daughter-in-law, who feels betrayed by the grandmother's choice not to move nearby and care for her children. The daughter-in-law, Beth, has a controlling nature, which has strained family relationships. The grandmother feels anxious about upcoming visits, fearing loss of connections with her son and grandchildren. Advice suggests speaking directly to unreasonable relatives as if they are reasonable, promoting clarity in communication.
When dealing with unreasonable people, speak to them as if they were reasonable people. You just want to be direct, matter of fact, and signal that what you're saying is reasonable.
The daughter-in-law, Beth, feels betrayed by her mother-in-law's decision to prioritize her own life over being a full-time caregiver for her grandchildren.
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