Managing Expectations About Adolescent Change
Briefly

The article emphasizes the importance of understanding the developmental changes that occur during adolescence, a critical 8 to 10 year period that transitions older children into young adults. It discusses how parental expectations play a crucial role in navigating this phase. Parents who maintain realistic expectations regarding their children's changes—predictions (what might happen), ambitions (what they desire to happen), and conditions (what they believe should happen)—are better equipped to handle the emotional upheaval that can arise as their children grow. This understanding helps mitigate feelings of surprise, anxiety, or disappointment when changes occur.
When parents hold realistic expectations about the transformations during adolescence, they can better navigate emotional challenges and avoid overreacting to common developmental changes.
Understanding the emotional power of predictions, ambitions, and conditions can help parents manage their response to adolescent changes more effectively and reduce feelings of anxiety or disappointment.
Read at Psychology Today
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