The author reflects on her previous experiences as a 'fun aunt' for her seven nieces and nephews, believing these experiences prepared her for motherhood. However, upon becoming a mother herself, she was overwhelmed by the constant responsibilities of caring for her own child. She likens babysitting to test-driving a car, enjoying the fun aspects without the long-term responsibility. The reality of motherhood was a stark contrast to her carefree aunt days, revealing the depth of commitment and challenges involved in raising a child.
"I thought I understood. I had witnessed a few epic meltdowns while babysitting, so I assumed I was prepared. Turns out, those were just trailers. What my child has offered up in the subsequent years is the full feature presentation!"
"The shock of constant responsibility... I couldn't understand why it had felt so much easier to be the favorite aunt of multiple kids than to care for just one."
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