The article reflects on a mother's journey as she transitions into full-time parenting after the birth of her first child. Initially feeling a sense of loss from leaving her career, she discovers that motherhood is a fulfilling role. She explores her interests by starting a small business and ultimately turning to writing during naptime, leading to multiple published works. This experience challenges traditional perspectives on work and identity, highlighting that parenting can also be a meaningful, creative endeavor.
When I answered honestly, I often heard, 'Well, that's an important job too.' Well-meaning, yes. But it sometimes felt dismissive... no one tells a doctor or lawyer their job is important - they just know.
Full-time motherhood allowed me to explore different parts of myself and take risks I wouldn't have considered if I'd remained in my old job.
Staying home helped me discover and polish my interests... I wrote feverishly during naps and evenings... multiple novels, two of which are forthcoming with a small press.
The decision to leave the workforce was multifaceted... sending him to day care would have consumed 25% of my take-home income, which just didn't feel worth it.
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