I became a mom at 18 despite never wanting kids and not being motherly. My children still grew up to be successful adults.
Briefly

Becoming a mother at 18 was never part of my plan, but it led to a commitment to intentional parenting. Despite my initial reluctance, I embraced motherhood and aimed to provide a loving, disciplined environment for my children. Learning from my own upbringing, I focused on leading by example and instilling values such as hard work and curiosity. I prioritized not only academics but also cultural appreciation, exposing them to different music and perspectives. This approach has contributed to their successful development into adulthood.
I decided to embrace motherhood with determination. Parenting is a delicate balance. I had to not repeat the same mistakes my parents made while inadvertently creating new ones.
There was no room for half-assing motherhood. I had seen too many examples of what happened when people weren't intentional about raising kids.
If I wanted my (now two) children to take school seriously, they had to see me taking life seriously. So, I set the standard.
I wanted them to have a well-rounded perspective on life. I gave them an appreciation for older music and different genres.
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