The situation involves Iris, her family, and their Dalmatian, Cody, whom the author is temporarily caring for. Iris has been unable to find stable housing for six months, and her current living arrangement prohibits pets. The author expresses a desire to help but also recognizes the need to set boundaries. Compassionate communication is key, suggesting an exploration of options rather than imposing a strict deadline for rehoming the dog. It is recommended to discuss the practicality of keeping Cody and how it impacts Iris's housing situation.
You've held up your end of the agreement, and then some. If your lifestyle or preferences don't have room for Cody long-term, it's OK to say so.
Losing a home is a traumatic experience—not only for her but for her children as well. She is probably experiencing a flood of emotions, including fear, shame, and guilt.
Rather than set a deadline—which can feel like you're punishing Iris—talk about options and timelines together.
Gently ask her whether keeping the dog is really in her and her kids' best interest.
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