The letter discusses a mother's concern about her 16-month-old son's safety and care. After her mother expressed that she could no longer lift him due to back issues, she began pushing for the child to learn skills he isn't developmentally ready for, like climbing into his car seat. The mother is stressed by these conversations and feels it would be safer and easier to hire a professional caregiver instead. The advice given is to firmly explain to her mother that, while she loves her grandson, he requires more attention than she is able to provide.
You need to tell your mother kindly but firmly that you know she loves her grandson, but he needs more hands-on care than she is able to give.
Your son is years away from being able to do what your mother is suggesting. End those discussions if they stress you and create conflict.
If your mother can't lift your son anymore, then it is safer and more logical to consider hiring someone who can provide the care he needs.
Your concerns for your son’s safety and development are valid, and you shouldn’t feel pressured into changing your parenting style to accommodate others.
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