Dear Abby: I said some horrible things on Facebook, and now I can't see my grandkids
Briefly

The article deals with two separate letters addressing familial issues stemming from grief and trust. The first letter highlights a grandmother's struggle after losing her daughter to cancer, showcasing the bond she formed with her grandchildren, disrupted by conflict with her son-in-law. Despite her attempts to reconcile, she faces rejection. The second letter discusses parental disappointment in a college daughter who violated trust by allowing her boyfriend over while dog-sitting. It emphasizes the challenges of navigating adult children's choices and the implications of family rules.
"I wish you had mentioned what that huge fight was really about because I might have been able to answer your question about how to patch things up more fully."
"Continue apologizing to your former son-in-law and continue sending gifts to your grandchildren on their birthdays and at Christmas so they will know they have a grandmother who exists and cares about them."
"It's difficult to let go of our disappointment in her poor judgment by allowing a stranger into our home with unsecured documents out in the open."
"Her sexual activities and consequences are her adult choices, but I'm not sure when I'll be able to fully address the trust breach caused by her actions."
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