The article discusses the challenges faced by a grandparent, whose wife is critical of their son-in-law's habits. While the grandfather sees some validity in her opinions, he also acknowledges the need to temper her remarks for the sake of family harmony. The advice suggests that if the son-in-law feels uncomfortable, he should address it directly. The grandfather is encouraged to address relationship dynamics openly with both the couple to foster a more supportive atmosphere, all while ensuring his wife feels included in the conversation.
"Your son-in-law has to manage his relationship with you and your wife, so if he's feeling chafed by her opinions, he's got to learn how to say something."
"It's perfectly reasonable to say, 'I'm uncomfortable with the way our relationship is playing out with our son-in-law. I'm going to talk to both of them about ways that they can feel better supported.'"
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