Asking Eric: I want to cut my friends off forever. But first I want to know why they hurt me.
Briefly

The letter discusses the grief experienced after the loss of a son, emphasizing feelings of abandonment when close friends fail to offer support. The response reflects on how individuals may hesitate to reach out during such difficult times due to fear, and notes that it's not easily forgotten. It suggests that while separating from unsupportive friendships may be necessary, addressing these behaviors at a later time could provide closure. It emphasizes the importance of processing feelings with supportive individuals during this challenging period.
A wise reader recently shared a reflection on their grief experience and noted that they didn't remember any of the awkward things people said or did. They only remembered that people reached out.
People sometimes, too often, get stuck not knowing what to say or do to help someone experiencing grief, and so they say nothing.
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