A Woman's Daughter Doesn't Want Her to Have a Love Life. But Mom Is Over the Tantrums.
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The article discusses a mother's struggle with her daughter's persistent animosity toward her dating life after the death of the children's father a decade ago. Despite efforts to help her daughter through grief, the adult daughter's hostility has not abated, affecting the mother's relationships. After reconnecting with a past partner, the mother feels the need to assert her independence and boundaries, emphasizing that while her children are a priority, they cannot dictate her personal life. This situation highlights the complicated dynamics between parents and grieving adult children.
My daughter has always been hostile towards my dating, even years after her father's death. It’s exhausting, and her behavior doesn’t change regardless of my attempts to communicate.
I finally drew a line, telling my daughter that while she does not have to support my love life, she needs to be civil. I am the parent, she is the child.
When I reconnected with my late ex’s father after all these years, my daughter threw a tantrum. Her obsession with my romantic life is unrelenting and stifling.
She moved back home after weeks of silence, accusing me of prioritizing men over my kids. However, they will always be my focus.
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