Psychologist Lisa Damour advises that tweens and teens should avoid large friendship groups to reduce the drama associated with middle school social dynamics. In a podcast appearance, she notes that once more than a few friends are involved, it's nearly impossible for everyone to get along equally. The happiest kids, according to her, tend to have one or two close friends, and parents can support their children by encouraging strong bonds in smaller groups. Damour's advice suggests that large groups often create unnecessary stress and drama for kids.
‘You cannot get a collection of people together who like one another equally once you're hitting for than two or three people.’ – Lisa Damour.
‘The least stressed and thus happiest kids have one or two good friends.’ – Lisa Damour.
‘If your kid is in a large friendship group with a lot of drama… it’s not your fault. It’s too many kids trying to hang out with each other.’ – Lisa Damour.
‘Ask your child if there is one or two friends within the larger group that they're closest to, and encourage them to create stronger bonds.’ – Lisa Damour.
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