The article presents two different scenarios involving social dilemmas. The first involves a friend stealing from a restaurant, leading to the feeling of disappointment and ethical conflict. Miss Manners advises distancing oneself from such individuals rather than confronting them about their dishonesty. The second situation concerns politely declining to support a friend's political campaign due to concerns over their qualifications. The response emphasizes maintaining social relationships while prioritizing personal values and integrity.
"There is no reason to respond to future invitations, as there would be no point in trying to give a lengthy explanation to such an individual as to why you do not wish to be an Accessory to the Theft of Accessories, either before or after the fact."
"Whether you should have done more is a question for the Morals Department, not the Etiquette Department."
"We do not feel this individual has the skill, knowledge or ability to adequately represent our district... there also exist aspects of their past which would become political fodder in the hands of any opponent's negative campaign."
"However, even if we were able, we do not feel this individual has the skill, knowledge or ability to adequately represent our district."
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