The article discusses two etiquette dilemmas: one regarding unsolicited comments on gray hair and another concerning disruptive greetings in shared spaces. The author describes their experience with frequent strangers questioning their awareness of their gray hair, leading to confusion over how to respond. Meanwhile, another issue arises where a colleague's loud greetings in a break room disrupts others, causing discomfort. Miss Manners weighs in on both situations, emphasizing the importance of grace in communication and recognizing when to engage or remain silent.
"Miss Manners would probably add, 'Do you have a mirror I could borrow?' But for those wanting less drama, perhaps 'Thank you for letting me know.'"},{
"It feels rude not to. I, however, ignore her well-meaning but general and, in my opinion, disruptive salutations and remain silent."},{
"Oh, please. Greeting colleagues is thoughtful; the real issue lies in forcefully attention-seeking behavior affecting others’ peace of mind."},{
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