The article reflects on the author's journey with her last name and that of her husband, exploring the implications of identity tied to names. Initially considering a name change upon marriage, the author chose instead to hyphenate their childrenâs last names after discovering unpleasant associations connected to her husband's surname. Highlighting humor and personal significance in her own last name, she shares the complexities they faced when deciding on their children's name amidst unexpected challenges during a house sale. This blend of identity and circumstance illustrates the weight names carry in family dynamics.
I had a harder time with last names than first names when it came to our kids.
Eventually, we learned my husband's last name meant he likely descended from Pontius Pilate.
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