Alison Fragale, an organizational psychologist, emphasizes the importance of status in her book 'Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve'. She argues that status, perceived by others, can be influenced by how we present ourselves. A 'likeable badass' combines care for others with personal capabilities, fostering respect and improving quality of life. This respect is vital for gaining power and enhances mental and physical health. Incorporating ways to support others, even in seemingly trivial interests, can elevate professional standing while remaining genuine and authentic.
A likeable badass is someone who shows up as both caring and capable. When people see you as caring and capable, they grant you status.
Feeling respected improves physical and mental health. It also makes it easier to gain power, another fundamental need. The more we feel valued by others, the better our lives are.
We only get as much status as others grant us. Fortunately, we can influence our status by how we show up.
Science shows that people respect those who care about others and are good at what they do.
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