...I tell someone I'm going to sleep training ... and they start going. And I just say, very calmly, very neutral: 'Oh, I'm not looking for any feedback on that.' There's nothing to say back to that. It's not personal to you! I don't say 'I'm not looking for any feedback from you' I say 'I'm not looking for any feedback on that.' It works every time.
For you. That might be crazy for you. It doesn't apply to me. It's a nice way of staying firm in your own opinions while holding space for theirs.
What a strange thing to say out loud. This is, OEUD admits, the most brazen option for handling unsolicited opinions, making it clear that some comments simply don’t merit a response.
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