A 63-year-old woman receives frequent compliments comparing her to an actress she does not find attractive, leaving her unsure about how to respond without sounding insincere. In a separate scenario, a host feels disturbed by a child using a loud tablet during family dinners. There’s a debate on whether hosts can enforce rules regarding devices. Miss Manners advises addressing disruptive behavior directly with children, suggesting a quiet approach, and even providing headphones to ensure a comfortable environment for all guests.
When someone compares your appearance to a celebrity you don't find attractive, respond flatly, acknowledging the comment without implying a compliment or offense.
At large family dinners, it's important for the host to set rules regarding electronics to ensure a pleasant atmosphere for all guests.
In cases where a child's behavior is disruptive, it's effective to address the issue directly with the child rather than confronting the parents.
If other attempts to address the noise are unsuccessful, offering a pair of headphones can help maintain a quieter environment.
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