Opinion: Saratoga can be a city that chooses kindness
Briefly

July brings mixed emotions, marked by the remembrance of a father’s loss from an aviation accident fifteen years ago. Grief impacts everyone uniquely, resulting in a shared ache of absence regardless of circumstances. Loss can stem from illness, sudden tragedy, or the passing of pets. Everyone carries invisible burdens, and small acts of kindness can significantly impact others. The community can foster a culture of care through simple gestures, aiming for Saratoga to be recognized for kindness. Listening and understanding others during tough times strengthens community bonds.
Loss has many faces. Some endure long journeys through illness, others face the shock of an instant tragedy, and some grieve companions with paws instead of words. The route may differ, but the destination-the ache of absence-is universally understood.
Grief does not respect titles, postcodes or calendars. I have learned, in council chambers and grocery aisles alike, that every person carries an invisible backpack of worries: an unconfirmed diagnosis, a job lost, a loved one slipping away.
If Saratoga becomes known as a city that chooses kindness-even marginally above average-I would count that a civic victory. Kindness is not abstract. It shows up in everyday gestures.
A gentle word or patient ear can lighten it more than we know. Over the past year, I have heard from neighbors recovering from major heart surgery, caregivers stretched thin, and families mourning sudden accidents.
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