""I'm surprised by how many guys come to me for advice. I work in a vape shop, and a lot of 18-21-year-olds will hang around the shop and tell me about their worries. I feel like I have so many little brothers now - they're all scared and worried about the future, just as I was, and now I can impart my wisdom to them, even older men who have seen more than me, will hang around and talk.""
""Self-reflection becomes more natural. You no longer grieve friendships that you've grown out of or feel the need (as much) to please people like your parents." - u/LarryZuckercornESQ"
""Things make sense quicker. If I had gone to college at the age of 30, I would have understood more of what was taught because I have a better understanding of the world. Unfortunately, that also makes me see how ugly it can be with all the suffering." - u/MedicalDeparture6318"
""Emotional maturity. I'm less quick to anger and realize how walking away with my head held high is better than escalating any conflict, which is a much more masculine thing to do than getting into squabbles and fights over inflated egos." - u/RoyalT663"
Aging is often viewed negatively, but many older men share unexpected benefits that come with age. They report feeling a sense of emotional maturity, with less anger and a better understanding of conflict resolution. Self-reflection becomes easier, and they no longer feel the need to please others. Many find that their understanding of the world deepens, allowing them to grasp complex issues more quickly. Additionally, older men appreciate the opportunity to mentor younger individuals, sharing their wisdom and experiences.
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