Listening is not only a natural capacity but also a skill that can be honed. Many couples face disparities in their listening abilities, which can lead to feelings of neglect and strain in relationships. The struggle to remain present during conversations can cause misunderstandings and conflicts. Utilizing curiosity and compassion can foster greater understanding and connection between partners. The article illustrates this with an example of a couple, Vanessa and Mike, whose communication issues stemmed from one partner's inattentiveness, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue to resolve conflicts and enhance intimacy.
Listening attentively is a capacity and skill that many don't have. Sadly, a lapse in listening can result in pain and disconnection for those who share their feelings.
Curiosity and compassion, both for ourselves and our loved ones, are the tools best applied in situations where one partner is not attentive to the other.
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