The Hidden Harm of "Be Grateful" and Weaponized Gratitude
Briefly

Gratitude is widely recognized for its emotional benefits, such as enhancing relationships and mental health. However, it can also be manipulated into 'weaponized gratitude,' which suppresses criticism and reinforces existing power structures. This phenomenon manifests in personal relationships and workplaces where individuals feel compelled to express gratitude, even when it undermines their own validity or dignity. Instead of encouraging genuine appreciation, weaponized gratitude creates an environment where individuals are pressured to ignore their concerns and accept harmful dynamics, potentially leading to burnout and dissatisfaction.
Gratitude, often celebrated for its positive effects, can become weaponized, manipulating thankfulness to silence valid concerns and uphold unhealthy power dynamics.
Weaponized gratitude occurs when expressions of thankfulness suppress criticism or reinforce hierarchies, redirecting emotional focus away from pressing issues.
Read at Psychology Today
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