The article captures a conversation between 'Me' and 'Lar' reflecting on grief after the loss of a loved one named Rob. Lar struggles with feelings of grief, describing it as a complex and uncontrollable emotion that varies in intensity over time. The dialogue emphasizes that grief is personal yet universal, and while there's no right or wrong way to grieve, it evokes a deep emotional pain. Lar highlights the challenges of finding meaning in loss and the importance of patience as part of the healing journey.
Grief seems to be a lot of things. It's a process; it comes in waves; it comes in stages; it can't be controlled; it can last for months or years; it's incredibly personal and also universal.
My natural inclination is to search for answers, but I'm not even sure what the questions are. Trying to make sense of what Rob did isn't going to bring him back or make me feel any better.
I'd say give it time to heal.
Anything and everything you're feeling right now is perfectly OK to feel. There's no right way or wrong way to grieve.
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