I just figured stuff out as I went. In my mind it wasn't a choice of one over the other, there was no question that I just had to find a way to do both.
Once I recognised how phase-like the journey was and how important it was to be flexible and adaptable, I was able to minimise the stress and enjoy the ride.
Pick your battles. Be organised and think ahead. Plan a slice of time each day (no matter how short) that is yours - to play a song, write a song, ponder your next project.
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