This is how we do it: I suggested inviting another person, but we settled on a couples tantric massage'

If we go through a couple of weeks when we don't have sex, Kyle starts to lose the plot... I could feel my uterus doing somersaults.

When I started going through menopause, I could tell he was suffering because he needs that sexual release, but I was losing my libido.

We decided to try something new on our honeymoon recently. We went to a tantric masseuse, who talked us through some tantric practices.

Kyle would have sex every day if he could. If we go through a couple of weeks without it, Kyle starts to lose the plot.

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