"Astrospying, or prematurely looking up someone's zodiac sign or birth chart, can hurt your chance of getting to know someone for who they are. I don't recommend it," says astrologer Lisa Stardust. "A birth chart just tells you what qualities you could bring out in each other when you're together. It's not the end-all, be-all of a relationship. After all, according to astrology, my Gemini mom and Scorpio dad shouldn't be compatible, yet they've been together for 40 years. Everyone is more than their chart."
"Astrology can be a fun reference point, but you shouldn't be using it to make assumptions," says Jarryd Boyd, a certified dating coach. "It's tempting to want to use it as a shortcut, but doing so can close you off to people who could be a great match for you. The real connections happen when you look beyond the stars and focus on genuine interaction and communication with your potential partners."
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