Wexford father organising charity match in memory of son who died at birth - 'When you lose a child, you lose all the days that go with it'

""When you lose a child, you lose all the days that go with it. You lose the birthdays, the Christmases, all of those moments you would have had. So days like this are about remembering the child you can't hold and supporting each other through that.""

""It's something that never leaves you. You're never the same after an experience like that. It changes everything, and you're always carrying that with you.""

""Féileacáin were brilliant to us. The support they give, both in the hospital and afterwards is incredible. They help you keep memories of your child alive, and that's so important, because when you go through a pregnancy, you always expect there will be a baby at the end of it.""

Féileacáin is a national charity established in 2010 to support those affected by the death of a baby around birth. Aidan Clarke shared his experience of losing a child during the pandemic, highlighting the emotional toll and challenges faced during that time. He emphasized the importance of remembering lost children and the support provided by Féileacáin, which helps families keep memories alive. Despite the grief, Aidan's family welcomed a daughter two years later, illustrating the ongoing journey of healing and remembrance.

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