The article discusses instances where neighbors solicit help by selling products for fundraising, making it uncomfortable for many who feel obliged to buy. While the fundraising causes may be good, Miss Manners challenges the moral implications of teaching children to pressure their neighbors into such purchases. The piece also explores etiquette in retail settings, where customers often neglect to greet staff, creating a demanding atmosphere. Ultimately, the article emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining mutual respect in neighborly and retail interactions.
"Even if the causes are the best, Miss Manners will have to disagree about the wholesomeness of the values being inculcated. Teaching children to feel good about shaming and extorting their neighbors, with the justification that the funds are for a good cause, strikes her as bad policy."
"If that is too difficult, you could hide behind the curtains until the fundraising neighbors move on."
"It is rare that am I addressed with Excuse me, Good morning, Hello, etc., when someone enters with a question, whether about our merchandise or for general information."
"People simply ask their question, sometimes in a rather demanding way (or at least it feels that way). I'm glad to answer whatever questions people have."
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