A reader explains a recurring issue with a friend regarding dining experiences, particularly their habit of allowing servers to decide their meal. While the reader is uninterested in food and feels they streamline the order process, their friend perceives this behavior as embarrassing and burdensome to the server. Miss Manners clarifies that the reader's apathy may be perceived as disdain, causing discomfort in the restaurant setting. Ultimately, it's not the act of asking the server for help, but rather the inappropriate expression of indifference that draws criticism.
Your lack of interest in food is understandable, but openly expressing apathy can come off as disdain to those who enjoy the dining experience.
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