My Dad and I Kept a Huge Secret From My Mom for Years. Now It Might Break Our Family Apart.
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The author grapples with the complexities of her mother's anti-abortion stance despite being pro-choice theoretically. After having an abortion at 16 with her father's support, she feels relief and no regrets about her decision. During a recent family gathering, her cousin revealed her own pregnancy dilemma, prompting the author to consider sharing her personal experience to support her cousin's decision-making. However, she worries about the repercussions of her actions on her relationship with her mother and the family dynamic, particularly regarding her mother's strong opinions about abortion.
My mother is pro-choice in theory, but in practice, she is not really for abortion.
I had an appointment with a therapist and ultimately decided to have an abortion. My dad paid for it and went with me to the clinic.
I have achieved all my dreams in the past five years, and I know I made the right choice. I have no regrets.
I'm torn between privately sharing my experience with my cousin and hoping she doesn't tell anyone else, or keeping my mouth shut.
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