Miss Manners: I think this novelist owes me an apology
Briefly

Navigating feedback in creative contexts requires sensitivity. Authors desire both praise and discerning feedback, but knowing when to offer which can be complicated. In discussions, it is often more effective to first inquire if the author is open to critique. Additionally, preferences for assistance, such as in decisions about art and design, may clash with intentions of others trying to help, leading to frustration. Establishing clear communication can ease these interactions.
All authors crave discerning feedback. All authors also crave praise. The trick is knowing which to give when.
As it is well past time to retire the offensive cliche Does this make me look fat? as The Most Loaded Question.
Miss Manners finds it best to ask first, but has found that the former is best delivered before publication.
I really wanted her to leave me alone to decide for myself.
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