#workplace-relationships

#workplace-relationships

One view is that in relationships, differences in personality are adaptive because people can complement each other. For example, one might assume that someone who is very messy could function better in a relationship with a tidy partner than with another person who is also very messy. On the other hand, a contrasting view is that personality similarity is more adaptive. Indeed, it is not difficult to imagine that a messy person may feel more at ease with like-minded messy persons.

These events, also called retreats, bring colleagues together for a mix of structured activities and free time - freeing them from their regular work obligations. For one or two days, employees take a mandatory break from their normal routines at work and at home. Participants spend a lot of that time making small talk with colleagues, as well as engaging in structured interactions that may include awkward icebreakers.

To recap: Cabot, then the head of HR at tech company Astronomer, was spotted on a jumbotron at the concert at Gillette Stadium in Foxborough, Massachusetts, cozied up with her boss, Andy Byron, then the CEO of the company. Once Cabot and Byron realized they were on the big screen, the pair could be seen scrambling to separate and hide their faces.

You interact with your colleagues and (in the best of cases) create a neighborhood of peers that you can rely on both to push the work forward and to share the joys and tribulations of the workday. That's why annoying colleagues can be a particular thorn. When you have a peer at work that you don't want to deal with, it disrupts the flow of your day and diminishes your intrinsic enjoyment of work.

I'm friends with my co-worker, not in the way where we naturally grew close after being forced to spend eight hours a day with each other. We were friends before we became co-workers. When I heard she had applied for the same company, I was excited, but grew wary. I secretly didn't want her to get it. I was scared of what it would do to our relationship.

Thanks for being so thoughtful about work crushes. They're so common but so complicated! In general, the most important consideration is whether there's a power imbalance. In your case, you describe the potential relationship as employee-employee, but from the university's perspective, your crush's status as a student is more important than his role as an employee. As a staffer with a potentially permanent position, you have more institutional power, and the student-employee has more institutional protection.

Just the prospect of interacting with that person can be unpleasant or feel draining. There is a powerful tool that is often counterintuitive for quickly shifting your approach with such people and finding opportunities for breakthroughs. After making this shift it becomes possible to communicate effectively and in a more positive way with them. And you tend to find them much less annoying.

The organization had a strict and strange "no fraternization" policy. Some colleagues ignored it, and no one that I knew of faced consequences. We never did anything inappropriate or socialized outside of work. After the formal part of training was over, some job search assistance was ongoing with another individual. For a holiday gift, I gave all the trainers cookies. I also gave Barb a speaker I had won, since she enjoys music lots.

Last week, Nestlé, the $244 billion food conglomerate behind some of the world's most beloved candy and coffee brands, announced that its CEO, Laurent Freixe, had been dismissed for violating the company code of conduct after just one year on the job. An investigation had confirmed reports that he was having an inappropriate relationship with a direct report, the company said. Nestlé, a category laggard whose share price has been slipping, had already installed a new CEO, Philipp Navratil, an internal hire who previously led the company's Nespresso business.

I hate to break it to you, but it probably will be awkward for a while, no matter what you do. No one likes to come face to face with people they'd rather leave in their past, let alone seeing them on a 9-5 basis in the same building. Even if you left the relationship on perfectly good terms, it still might be awkward as this person comes into your life again.

One way to enhance your ability to work with people is to beware of preconceptions and first impressions. Deciding that you know what to expect from another person based on limited and sometimes mistaken information is a sure way to hinder the relationship-if not completely derail it. Even worse is to label the other person. The labels, names, and characterizations we put on other people create barriers to effective relationships.

In any new environment, acceptance can take time. Adjustments in dynamics and workflows require patience and understanding from both the newcomer and existing team members.

Sexual activity in one's workspace is typically a fireable offense in almost every employment context. If you are independently wealthy, then go for it!

Managing upward involves influencing decisions of superiors and correcting mistakes or false impressions regarding senior roles, requiring finesse depending on individual and company culture.

The ongoing situation in the tech company mirrors the recent controversy involving the Coldplay concert, highlighting the ramifications of personal relationships within a professional setting.

Developing a crush on a co-worker can be distracting and inappropriate, especially when both individuals are married. It's important to maintain professionalism in the workplace. Keeping emotional distance can prevent complications in a career.

Footage from a Coldplay concert captured a couple in surprise as their image appeared on the big screen, leading to viral reactions online.

If the oil from her air fresheners is transferring to the treats your co-worker brings, someone needs to discreetly take her aside and speak up.

Managing up is navigating your relationships with people that have more positional power than you. It's no longer just ingratiating yourself to your manager.