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4 days agoMarriage 911: Don't Ignore Verbal Abuse!
Verbal abuse includes subtle behaviors like criticism, dismissive tone, avoidance, and phone-checking that harm relationships even without yelling or insults.
Because of work, we had to move about four hours away. Since then, we have felt increasingly isolated. I tried to call weekly, visit often and send gifts for every holiday. About a year in, I realized we were initiating all the contact and tried a little experiment. We stopped calling them. It took more than eight weeks for anyone to contact us. His mother calls his other siblings who live elsewhere every week, but not us.